Sexless Wife - Tips to Rekindle Your Woman's Desire

The sexless wife is often the stereotype of the downtrodden everyman in stories and comedies especially but if you have a sexless wife then you know it is no laughing matter. The humiliation and misery of being rejected by the one who was suppose to be your lover for life can be an awful experience that strains marriages to breaking point and often beyond. These tips will hopefully help you pull back from that brink and help you bring back intimacy and love to your marriage.

Start off Slow

While being romantic and an object of desire is essential to rekindling the passion women are not creatures to be forced or drawn into such things easily. If you come in too hard and fast with ploys to have sex you will drive your woman further away from you and damage your relationship further. Start of slow and try to be friends again and learn to enjoy each others company like you did back in the early days. This slowly, slowly approach will generate more goodwill and sexual desire than any overblown romantic dinner.

Beware the Wall of Resentment

Resentments can build up in a marriage like a dam being filled. Eventually the dam will be breached and it will all fall apart but when the dam is filling it can seriously inhibit your sex life as your wife may subconsciously not see you as her sexy husband but as the man who did this and that... or didn't do this and that.

You need to work to break down this invisible wall of resentment that has split you from the intimacy of a good relationship and as such has effected your love making as well.

Communicate!

You must learn to speak with your sexless wife in an honest, calm and deep way to uncover the resentments and their issues with sex. This often comes undone if you start making the talk about yourself and your desires rather than hers so make sure you play the role of the strong supportive husband and play detective as well to uncover and solve the problems and resentments. Nothing is sexier than a man who can solve problems to most women!

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