| Hear it straight from the horse's mouth: what do we ladies consider good sex? by Melissa LaRicca | ||
 Ever wonder what guys talk about when we're not around? Here's your chance to have a sneak peek inside the other half's heads. Many men have asked me to describe what makes sex good for women. While I would love to be able to turn you all into Don Juans for the sake of women everywhere, the simple truth is that "good sex" entails different things for different women. Therefore, I decided to conduct an informal survey, asking various women the question: "What makes for good sex?" Some of their answers may surprise you. In any case, you're bound to get a few ideas as to the little things you can do to make your woman squeal. "Give me a roaring fire, a glass of Merlot, a chocolate souffle, and hungry eyes, and the rest takes care of itself. You just have to give in and let things happen." - Lori, 26, chef | ||
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| "I like a man who's able to take charge while still remaining a gentleman. Someone who can be firm and gentle at the same time. Show me you're a man by treating me like a woman. You know what I mean?" - Felisha, 28, artist "Foreplay, foreplay and foreplay. Good sex always starts way before the actual sex even begins. The guy has to seduce all my senses first. Whisper dirty things in my ear, kiss my neck, run your fingers up and down my back, and give me goose bumps. Make my clothes come off by themselves." - Meredith, 24, waitress "It depends what mood my man and I are in. Sometimes slow and drawn out lovemaking is the order of the day, while other times, we just rip each other's clothes off and get it on fast and hard." - Chantal, 29, actress "I love it when my boyfriend teases me before we actually have sex; it always makes it so much better. Like, if he kisses and caresses the areas surrounding my breasts and vagina, such as my upper torso and inner thighs, getting me increasingly excited, before going down on me slowly. And then penetrating me with only the tip of his penis for a while, until I am so hot and bothered that it would be cruel and unusual not to penetrate me completely." - Kristine, 20, student "In a word: spontaneity. The best sex usually happens when you least expect it. Like if you both get really turned on suddenly while you're painting the house and you end up having sex right there on the paint-covered sheets; that's hot." - Gina, 31, interior designer "I like it when the guy is in tune with me. I mean, start off slow and pick-up the pace gradually. Start with a position that allows us both to get comfortable and feel each other out and go from there. Just not forcing anything too quickly, I guess. Guys don't realize how far things can go if they're patient." - Julie, 25, kindergarten teacher Chemistry, morning sex, props, role-playing, and more goodies... | ||
| "I think that good sex can be summed up as chemistry. I mean, if there's chemistry between you, you can feel each other's wants and needs, and nothing is ever forced or awkward. You just know how tender or rough to be at the various stages of lovemaking. Chemistry guides you and makes it good." - Rain, 30, vintage clothing store owner "I find good sex happens when the partners are attentive to each other's reactions and give each other some type of feedback. Something as simple as an enthusiastic moan or telling the other person that what they're doing feels amazing or, if they could be doing something better, suggesting that they try doing whatever they're doing a little differently. That way, both people end up being satisfied." - Olivia, 33, accountant "I love when my man wakes me up in the wee morning hours by caressing my breasts or my behind and starts making love to me slowly while I'm still sleepy. I feel like I'm in a dream state that I don't want to come out of." - Vicky, 34, stewardess | ||
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| "I love making my man happy by cooking him dinner in his favorite little negligee and giving him whatever he wants for dessert." - Gabrielle, 23, travel agent "A good sexual experience is one in which both parties just let themselves get consumed by passion and abandon themselves to the whole experience. Sometimes this can turn quite primal, I love feeling our hearts pumping and the blood flowing." - Samantha, 35, restaurant manager "When I find myself lying breathless in my husband's arms with my head spinning from the orgasm; that's when I know it was good." - Laetecia, 32, homemaker "The best sex is playful and carefree. It happens when both parties' heads are clear and just enjoying the moment." - Alexandra, 25, marketing executive "Getting eaten out and fingered simultaneously always works for me." - Sandy, 18, student "I'm a big fan of props, like getting tickled with a feather or being loosely tied or blindfolded with silk scarves. Or being painted with edible body paints. I also like a light spanking every now and again." - Cassandra, 21, barmaid "Rhythm. I love putting on some music and letting it set the mood and pace. If I'm feeling a bit wild, I might put on something with a Latin beat with lot of percussion, and spice things up. If I'm feeling romantic, I'll go for something smooth and sexy and enjoy a slow groove." - Jordanna, 26, singer "I've been with my husband for a long time and we really enjoy role playing. Nothing crazy, just a bit imaginative. It really keeps things fresh and exciting." - Kimberly, 37, social worker Different strokes If you can take one thing from this little survey, it should be that no two women are exactly the same and what turns one woman on may not necessarily work for another. So, what's a guy to do? Talk to her, get to know her, see what makes her tick outside and inside the bedroom. You'll be glad you did when it comes time for her to show her appreciation. Source: Click here | ||
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